I have seen MANY online dating profiles, particularly those of males seeking females, and I can see what works and what could use improvement. Some people don't realize that the persona they are projecting may be in misalignment with their real life self, and what they are seeking.
Also having done photography for performer headshots and glamouous photos for years, I can advise you as to how to spruce up your photos to be your most appealing authentic self. We all slouch once in a while- but the time to stand up straight is in a photo!
I'd like to talk with you for a while to get a sense of who you are- and then review your online profile to see if that matches.
I tend to be able to connect with people easily and can share ideas as to how to make connections rather than throwing out bunches of bait with no catch in mind.
Another important element is KNOWING what you are seeking and refining what your guidelines are for what you actually want.

I plan to start with a half hour session initially though I wouldn't be surprised if it takes an hour or so. But for this site we'll try starting with a half hour. And if the hour is needed, we add on another unit
1 unit for this = 30 minutes of consultation