This is a common cause of nasty relationships ... not necessarily the others' fault. Accepting that you've maybe given away control of your life is the start taking back the power over your own life. It's not about the other ... it's about YOU! This obliges others, you may be in a relationship with, to take control of their own fate. It is possible to live happily and lovingly with a partner or a loved one. Living with a family member, good friend, co-worker, etc. may be what is holding you back. Often, being able to say 'no' to someone is the hardest thing to do and is the beginning of growing-up ... and take it from me, there's no age limit for someone to take back the power, acquire wisdom and live happily in your own skin for the rest of your life. Are you afraid to speak up? Are you totally honest with those closest to you? Do you respect yourself? It's all a matter of taking a look at yourself and seeing what YOU'VE done to hold you back!
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